A lot of relationships come with an expiration date. And when that day comes, you’d better be prepared for the best way to break up with your specific someone. It won’t be easy but it’s not something that can take care of itself either.
When breaking up, you can’t help hurting the other person involved (and yourself) in the process. Still, that doesn’t excuse you from being insensitive and charging blindly like a bull. For the best way to break up with someone, check these tips out!
1) Rip the band aid off.
The best way to break up with someone is by doing it as quickly as you can. Do not prolong the situation with endless explanations and indirect answers. Don’t try giving out hints either just because you can’t muster up the courage to say what you really mean.
It’s going to hurt no matter what. Trying to stretch it out will only keep both of you from moving on faster. Sometimes, it’s better to just “rip the band aid off.” Be direct to the point but stay sensitive as well.
2) Avoid goodbye presents.
If you’re going to break up with someone, bringing flowers over isn’t exactly the brightest idea. Unless you want to get thwacked by your own bouquet of roses, save the flowers for another occasion.
Goodbye gifts don’t help alleviate the pain. In fact, they only do the exact opposite. The best way to break up with someone is to be as simple and sincere as you can. No frills needed.
3) No return policy.
Perhaps this is also the right time to say that returning old love letters and presents are not advisable either. Doing so might help you get rid of extra baggage; but the truth is, such a move is equivalent to sticking a dagger into the other person’s heart.
For both your sakes, stop this practice! Don’t be so selfish as to disregard how the other would feel about having his or her gifts returned.
A lot of people think that the best way to break up with someone is by prolonging the situation, giving farewell presents and returning old love letters. Wrong. All wrong. Try reversing the situation and see how you’d feel when you try to break up with another person. That is probably your best gauge for any situation.
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